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		<title>by: Ron Britton</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-26064</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 05:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;I always found "Liberty University" rather an ironic name, all things considered.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Clueless irony is a fundie specialty.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I always found &#8220;Liberty University&#8221; rather an ironic name, all things considered.</p></blockquote>
<p>Clueless irony is a fundie specialty.
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		<title>by: LadyRavana</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-26063</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 05:39:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Gary Aldridge graduated from Liberty University and later worked for the late Jerry Falwell.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Forgive me for going off-topic, but I always found "Liberty University" rather an ironic name, all things considered.

Personally, I've been waiting for Pat Robertson to kick the bucket...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Gary Aldridge graduated from Liberty University and later worked for the late Jerry Falwell.</p></blockquote>
<p>Forgive me for going off-topic, but I always found &#8220;Liberty University&#8221; rather an ironic name, all things considered.</p>
<p>Personally, I&#8217;ve been waiting for Pat Robertson to kick the bucket&#8230;
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		<title>by: Parrotlover77</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-26044</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 22:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Also, how come judgement comes so easily to everybody else, but when it's one of their own we hear BS like "If all our closets were open, not a one of us could judge another."

I heard the same thing from a fundie relative when I sent an anti-McCain email to her.  Yet, for some reason, that doesn't stop her from sending me the "OBAMA IZ A SEKRET M00SL3M" emails.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also, how come judgement comes so easily to everybody else, but when it&#8217;s one of their own we hear BS like &#8220;If all our closets were open, not a one of us could judge another.&#8221;</p>
<p>I heard the same thing from a fundie relative when I sent an anti-McCain email to her.  Yet, for some reason, that doesn&#8217;t stop her from sending me the &#8220;OBAMA IZ A SEKRET M00SL3M&#8221; emails.
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		<title>by: Ron Britton</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-26034</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 15:40:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>"Truth" Prevailer:

&lt;blockquote&gt;He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.
—John 8:7&lt;/blockquote&gt;

It's really pathetic how clueless you fundies are.  You act like sex is a dirty, shameful act.  You pretend that it's a simple, minor urge that can be held back until marriage, and then completely satisfied thereafter by a weekly five-minute hump with the lights out.  Then you condemn anybody who has any desires beyond that.  You throw the entire weight of your ignorance against anybody who acts upon the very normal range and diversity of sexual desire.  You impeached a president for getting a blow job, but allow a war criminal to remain in office.

Is it any wonder that those with the biggest secret sex lives are fundies?  If you didn't suppress the normal so completely, you wouldn't find it necessary to rent motel rooms under false names and pick up crack whores for guilt-ridden relief.

If you accepted sexuality for the normal thing it is, then maybe Rev. Gary Aldridge would have felt secure enough in himself to have gone to a legal BDSM dungeon to have his desires satisfied safely.

Yes, "Truth" Prevailer.  You, personally, are partially to blame for his death, because you helped to create the toxic, hate-filled environment that he had to hide from.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Truth&#8221; Prevailer:</p>
<blockquote><p>He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.<br />
—John 8:7</p></blockquote>
<p>It&#8217;s really pathetic how clueless you fundies are.  You act like sex is a dirty, shameful act.  You pretend that it&#8217;s a simple, minor urge that can be held back until marriage, and then completely satisfied thereafter by a weekly five-minute hump with the lights out.  Then you condemn anybody who has any desires beyond that.  You throw the entire weight of your ignorance against anybody who acts upon the very normal range and diversity of sexual desire.  You impeached a president for getting a blow job, but allow a war criminal to remain in office.</p>
<p>Is it any wonder that those with the biggest secret sex lives are fundies?  If you didn&#8217;t suppress the normal so completely, you wouldn&#8217;t find it necessary to rent motel rooms under false names and pick up crack whores for guilt-ridden relief.</p>
<p>If you accepted sexuality for the normal thing it is, then maybe Rev. Gary Aldridge would have felt secure enough in himself to have gone to a legal BDSM dungeon to have his desires satisfied safely.</p>
<p>Yes, &#8220;Truth&#8221; Prevailer.  You, personally, are partially to blame for his death, because you helped to create the toxic, hate-filled environment that he had to hide from.
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		<title>by: Let the Truth Prevail</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-26032</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 15:03:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Last time I checked judgement was left up to God.
If all our closets were open, not a one of us could judge another.
May the Rev. Gary rest in peace.
He was a Great man who unfortunately was internally tortured by sexual desires...and not a one of us has the right to judge him.  Period</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last time I checked judgement was left up to God.<br />
If all our closets were open, not a one of us could judge another.<br />
May the Rev. Gary rest in peace.<br />
He was a Great man who unfortunately was internally tortured by sexual desires&#8230;and not a one of us has the right to judge him.  Period
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		<title>by: Dave Zirkle</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-7596</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Nov 2007 00:58:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>What I want to know about this is since he was allegedly alone and no foul play is suspected....how did he hog tie himself? That usually requires some assistance.

I guess it doesn't matter. I found it typical of this sort of hypocrite. I must admit to having a bit of a laugh as well. After all, he was so on Bill Clinton for getting oral sex from a woman.

I'm thinking fundies figure anal sex with a dildo is okay if you're all by yourself in a wet suit or two. OMG no oral stimulation though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I want to know about this is since he was allegedly alone and no foul play is suspected&#8230;.how did he hog tie himself? That usually requires some assistance.</p>
<p>I guess it doesn&#8217;t matter. I found it typical of this sort of hypocrite. I must admit to having a bit of a laugh as well. After all, he was so on Bill Clinton for getting oral sex from a woman.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m thinking fundies figure anal sex with a dildo is okay if you&#8217;re all by yourself in a wet suit or two. OMG no oral stimulation though.
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		<title>by: Troy</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-6843</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 03:29:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>If you suppress your desires, eventually your desires become perverse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you suppress your desires, eventually your desires become perverse.
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		<title>by: ParrotLover77</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-6661</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 15:43:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-6661</guid>
					<description>You know it's hard not to giggle when you see the hypocrisy here, but this is really a sad story from all perspectives.  The problem with the hypocritical sexual "deviant" (their term, not mine) fundies is that they are so caught up in believing that what they desire and are doing is a sin, they probably spend hours/days/weeks crying and praying for those thoughts to go away -- but they never do because it's just more complicated than that.

This in turn I believe leads to why they try SO hard to keep people from "falling prey" to sins like their own and why they speak out against most sexual acts.  It really shows how the whole system they are a part of and support screws them up too, makes them unhappy, and anybody else "fighting" against a fetish they desire.  It's probably even worse if they are homosexual because not being attracted to the opposite sex and not wanting to "be fruitful and multiply" with him or her must be incredibly painful… "why me" I'm sure they think to themselves.

If these things were not seen as sins and they weren't afraid of going to hell for them, they could be more open (or at least feel less guilty).  For example, the stall-tapping fundie politicians would be in openly gay HEALTHY relationships, instead of risky anonymous bathroom sex.

So, as hard as it is to not giggle when you see the hypocrisy, you have to remember that they are actually victims of the same system they support.  It is sad that he had to be so mean to others, and just as sad that he was so repressed that he had to get into autoerotic asphyxiation to "get off" when the natural biological urges he had been suppressing finally exploded.

Seriously, if he had a partner that was into his fetishes, he could have enjoyed his urges safely… or at least the partner could have called 911 if something went bad.  Or maybe if he wasn't repressed, he wouldn't have needed something so extreme to get him off.  Maybe just leather and latex would have done the trick.

Sad, sad, sad, sad…</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know it&#8217;s hard not to giggle when you see the hypocrisy here, but this is really a sad story from all perspectives.  The problem with the hypocritical sexual &#8220;deviant&#8221; (their term, not mine) fundies is that they are so caught up in believing that what they desire and are doing is a sin, they probably spend hours/days/weeks crying and praying for those thoughts to go away &#8212; but they never do because it&#8217;s just more complicated than that.</p>
<p>This in turn I believe leads to why they try SO hard to keep people from &#8220;falling prey&#8221; to sins like their own and why they speak out against most sexual acts.  It really shows how the whole system they are a part of and support screws them up too, makes them unhappy, and anybody else &#8220;fighting&#8221; against a fetish they desire.  It&#8217;s probably even worse if they are homosexual because not being attracted to the opposite sex and not wanting to &#8220;be fruitful and multiply&#8221; with him or her must be incredibly painful… &#8220;why me&#8221; I&#8217;m sure they think to themselves.</p>
<p>If these things were not seen as sins and they weren&#8217;t afraid of going to hell for them, they could be more open (or at least feel less guilty).  For example, the stall-tapping fundie politicians would be in openly gay HEALTHY relationships, instead of risky anonymous bathroom sex.</p>
<p>So, as hard as it is to not giggle when you see the hypocrisy, you have to remember that they are actually victims of the same system they support.  It is sad that he had to be so mean to others, and just as sad that he was so repressed that he had to get into autoerotic asphyxiation to &#8220;get off&#8221; when the natural biological urges he had been suppressing finally exploded.</p>
<p>Seriously, if he had a partner that was into his fetishes, he could have enjoyed his urges safely… or at least the partner could have called 911 if something went bad.  Or maybe if he wasn&#8217;t repressed, he wouldn&#8217;t have needed something so extreme to get him off.  Maybe just leather and latex would have done the trick.</p>
<p>Sad, sad, sad, sad…
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		<title>by: ericsan</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-6640</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 22:35:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>The saddest part is that somehow, nothing EVER fazes the followers, no matter how many Haggards and Bakkers and Aldridges you throw at them. Then again, they wouldn't be following these fucked up religions if they weren't dumbasses in the first place, so that's par for the course I guess.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The saddest part is that somehow, nothing EVER fazes the followers, no matter how many Haggards and Bakkers and Aldridges you throw at them. Then again, they wouldn&#8217;t be following these fucked up religions if they weren&#8217;t dumbasses in the first place, so that&#8217;s par for the course I guess.
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		<title>by: Ron Britton</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-6635</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 19:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>He could have also ordered it by mail or brought it in from out of state.  Thankfully, possession has been decriminalized.

I was wondering how he managed to hogtie himself and why the coroner thought that no foul play was involved.  Maybe the coroner was misquoted.  Since this was a fetish accident, maybe he meant that no &lt;em&gt;fowl&lt;/em&gt; play was involved.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He could have also ordered it by mail or brought it in from out of state.  Thankfully, possession has been decriminalized.</p>
<p>I was wondering how he managed to hogtie himself and why the coroner thought that no foul play was involved.  Maybe the coroner was misquoted.  Since this was a fetish accident, maybe he meant that no <em>fowl</em> play was involved.
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		<title>by: Stewart Paterson</title>
		<link>http://www.bay-of-fundie.com/archives/242/one-dildo-two-wetsuits-one-dead-fundie#comment-6634</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 19:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Perhaps he was given the dildo?
Then, if he hadn't bought it, he hadn't broken the law.

There's been a lot of discussion of this case over at PZ Myer's place, re the difficulty of getting into 2 wetsuits, and how does one hogtie oneself?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps he was given the dildo?<br />
Then, if he hadn&#8217;t bought it, he hadn&#8217;t broken the law.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s been a lot of discussion of this case over at PZ Myer&#8217;s place, re the difficulty of getting into 2 wetsuits, and how does one hogtie oneself?
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